So, I was having this random discussion the other day with some friends about pornography and if it's taboo to make a "tape" with your significant other. My immediate thought was, "Ummm, it's your relationship, you are entitled to do whatever the hell you want to do and shouldn't think about those types of consequences." Butttt, then, I thought about how shady people turn once their relationships and marriages fail and how they fathom that revenge can sometimes be the sweetest joy.
We hear about all the sex scandals in Hollywood, and while it's not always realistic to compare ourselves to those living in the spotlight, we have to remember that they are just as human as the rest of us and have relationships, too. Yes, some of their tapes were exposed to the world for fame, (i.e Kim K.), but others who made tapes and didn't expect them to get exposed fell victim (such as Rihanna's naked photos). I say this to say, do you have enough trust in your relationship to make a tape and if the relationship goes sour, would you worry or care if your business is possibly leaked for entertainment purposes?
This is touchy because you want to feel comfortable enough with your significant other to explore each other on all levels and not have to worry about such consequences. When my friends asked me if I would do it, I didn't know how to respond lol. I think I would have to be in the situation to make a definite answer. It's crazy because I'm sure Kim K and others who had leaked sex tapes didn't completely know their business would be put on blast when they were in the act. So, how would you know if your significant other, who claims he loves you and would never hurt you or do anything to ruin your reputation, would pull such a cowardly move once the deed is done?
So, the question is... Would you make a porno with your significant other??
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