Would You Make a Porno With Your Significant Other?

 

Hey world!,
So, I was having this random discussion the other day with some friends about pornography and if it's taboo to make a "tape" with your significant other. My immediate thought was, "Ummm, it's your relationship, you are entitled to do whatever the hell you want to do and shouldn't think about those types of consequences." Butttt, then, I thought about how shady people turn once their relationships and marriages fail and how they fathom that revenge can sometimes be the sweetest joy.

We hear about all the sex scandals in Hollywood, and while it's not always realistic to compare ourselves to those living in the spotlight, we have to remember that they are just as human as the rest of us and have relationships, too. Yes, some of their tapes were exposed to the world for fame, (i.e Kim K.), but others who made tapes and didn't expect them to get exposed fell victim (such as Rihanna's naked photos). I say this to say, do you have enough trust in your relationship to make a tape and if the relationship goes sour, would you worry or care if your business is possibly leaked for entertainment purposes?

This is touchy because you want to feel comfortable enough with your significant other to explore each other on all levels and not have to worry about such consequences. When my friends asked me if I would do it, I didn't know how to respond lol. I think I would have to be in the situation to make a definite answer. It's crazy because I'm sure Kim K and others who had leaked sex tapes didn't completely know their business would be put on blast when they were in the act. So, how would you know if your significant other, who claims he loves you and would never hurt you or do anything to ruin your reputation, would pull such a cowardly move once the deed is done?

So, the question is... Would you make a porno with your significant other??

7 Habits Women should steal from Men

Hey ladies! So before I start listing habits you should steal from men, I just want to state that I love being a woman! I love all things feminine and being a true girly girl wearing my pumps, lip gloss, and nail polish. Duh! But sometimes it's good to mix both worlds. I picked some of the most important habits from Madame Noire I think every woman should have in order to stay ahead of the "game", so to speak. Check them below!

1. IGNORE YOUR PHONE How often do you hear a woman complain that her man hasn’t called or texted her back for hours? Just walk through a bar and you’ll hear it a few times. But, fact is, women are more attached to their phones than men are. Men are better at being in the moment—at being in work mode all day, to the point where they don’t even check their phone on their lunch break, or at enjoying a four hour concert so much, that they don’t want to connect to the outside world. And that’s a good thing. Enjoy the moment. Stop checking your phone. Time will pass much quicker and you won’t even realize it took him four hours to get back to you.  Put the phone down ladies! I really need to work on this one. Like major! I am guilty of being on my phone while dinner, tweeting and taking pics, but it's actually not cute, at all! *coughs at Miranda* lol! 2. DON'T WORRY ABOUT THE FUTURE When it comes to relationships, don’t worry too much about where things are going. You’ll only stress yourself out because men just don’t worry as much about it as women do. So, you can either fight a constantly uphill battle of trying to drop hints about making your relationships “official”, or even about marriage, or you can sit back and enjoy the ride, like he is. Look—relationships that are meant to go somewhere, go somewhere. So don’t push it. I'm not the only one who thinks, "Omgosh, is he the one, can he be my  future hubby? O_o". It's easier said than done, but I've heard it makes better for enjoying the moment not tripping about the destination!

3. PRIORITIZE FRIEND TIME Man time is very important to men. They make a point of having at least one day a week when they go do something with just the guys. Women are more okay with bringing their man around to what should have been “girl time”, and sometimes they neglect to have girl time at all because they get caught up in their relationship. But it’s good for you and your relationship if you completely separate yourself from your guy sometimes. Girl night and girl talk is so important! If your man ever acts up, your girls are always gonna be there. Cherish your good girlfriends ladies! You're gonna need them one day as bridesmaids, lol!   4. STICK TO YOUR HOBBIES Same idea as prioritizing friend time, but more than just taking you away from your man for a while, sticking with your hobbies and your passions lets you remain the woman that he fell for. And, it helps you maintain a sense of individuality, as it is way too easy to suddenly wonder “who the hell am I?!” when you’ve been part of a couple for a long time. Yeah, I use to feel bad dedicating time to my blog in my last relationship, but this is my gateway and how I am able to express myself. Having some sort of hobby helps with keeping your own identity outside of your relationship. You never know, it can turn into something big! 5. HAVE MORE SEX Try to say “I’m not in the mood” less. Yes, you might be exhausted, but you know from experience that all it takes is that brief moment of pushing yourself through the exhaustion to suddenly be totally into getting it on. And sex is good for you and your relationship. It relieves stress, boosts confidence, and makes you and your man feel closer.  Yes ladies, sex is good! For the virgins, well I don't know what to tell ya, lol. But if you are active, it's great to connect with your boo and release some tension. Sex also burns calories so make it a work out, wink! So those are my top 5, read the rest at Madame Noire.  Did I skip over anything important? Comment below!

Do You believe in the "Zsa Zsa Zsu"?

I know you guys are like, what the heck is a Zsa Zsa Zsu??! Well if you don't watch Sex & The City, it's a term Carrie Bradshaw would say when she met an attractive guy who gave her those butterflies in her tummy. It's the fireworks, it's the sparks, it's the tingling in your toes, that undeniably amazing  feeling. We've all had the Zsa Zsa Zsu before, you know when you see him and you just get all warm inside!

Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City quoted this:

"Some people are settling down, some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than zsa zsa zsu."

Interesting right, but what happens when the Zsa Zsa Zsu doesn't come when you first kiss your mate? Is that something to just, well.. overlook?  Mind you, when you see him you still feel the connection, he is FINE, you still get tingly inside! But the butterflies suddenly flutter away when you guys kiss.Ugh right! Have you guys ever been through this? Lol. Don't even think about overlooking the Zsa Zsa Zsu! When you take it all the way to home base (sex), that spark ain't coming. This is important ladies!!

Moral of the story is..don't overlook the Zsa Zsa Zsu! That spark and connection you get when you see him, the hurt you get in your cheeks from smiling so hard! The Zsa Zsa Zsu makes a relationship worth it.

That's just my two cents. I'm waiting for my next Zsa Zsa Zsu. I love that sh*t!

Have you guys ever over looked the Zsa Zsa Zsu when you kissed him and it actually worked out in the long run?

Do You believe in the Zsa Zsa Zsu?

• Yes, I am not settling for anything less than it!
• Zsa Zsa who? o_O
• I mean it's important, but other things make up for it when it's missing
• Yes, but sometimes it takes a while for it to get there. Be patient!

Created on Jan 17, 2012

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The Dave Theory

Hey World,

So we haven't posted on relationship and dating. but we have included a few quotes here and there. Yvonne and I were talking to a guy we know about sex and relationships and he came up with this factual theory on the relationship game between men and women....we call it the Dave Theory.